Mediation

Carlsbad Mediation Lawyers

Divorce And Family Mediation In San Diego County – 858-345-1720

Aside from traditional family law litigation, at Griffith Young, we also help families through their divorce via uncontested mediation. Divorce can go one of two routes: mediation or litigation. Mediation, if successful, is generally exponentially cheaper and much faster than a litigated contested divorce.

Are you interested in using mediation for a peaceful divorce in Carlsbad? Call our mediation lawyers at 858-345-1720 to discuss your options or fill out our contact form here.

How Do You Choose The Right Mediator?

To experience the best outcome, you should look for a mediator who is trained to handle the various issues that can quickly complicate a divorce proceeding, such as child custody, visitation, and support.

Your mediator should be trained to resolve conflicts and possess extensive knowledge of your state’s divorce laws. Your mediator should also be willing to work with you to help you and your spouse facilitate a meaningful conversation about all pertinent issues.

Above all, look for a mediator you and your spouse can both work with. The process of searching for a mediator should be done together to ensure you are both comfortable with the person who will be moderating the negotiations in your divorce. You can hire a divorce mediation attorney to represent your specific interests in these matters.

Should I Consider A Private Judge?

You might benefit from having your case mediated by a private judge. This alternative can potentially save parties from the stress of going through a protracted legal battle and potentially thousands of dollars in legal expenses. In California, the courts enlist the services of legal professionals – such as experienced attorneys and retired judges – to serve as “private judges” – also known as judges pro tempore.

Private judges can take the place of public judges in formal legal proceedings, but in California, they can also act as mediators.

What To Consider When Preparing For Your First Mediation Session

Though mediation is generally less contentious than litigation, you may still be nervous about the process. It can help calm your nerves to know ahead of time what you should bring with you and how you should approach your first mediation session. First and foremost, remember to set your emotions aside and prepare to negotiate.

Though arguments may arise, it’s best to remember that successful mediation occurs when both parties work together. The mediator will help guide the conversation. Be sure to work with your attorney to understand the divorce mediation process so that you know what to expect and any information you need to be aware of. Lastly, you will want to bring important financial and child-related documents to the mediation.

These may include bank account balances, retirement accounts, medical and school records, extracurriculars, etc. Your attorney will be able to help you determine what specifics you’ll need.

Mediation Vs. Litigation – Pros And Cons

There are many advantages to avoiding a divorce trial. Avoiding a fight in court typically leads to a better long-term relationship with your ex-spouse – something that is particularly desirable if you have children. In the absence of a trial, the divorce process is often quicker, cheaper, and more private. In addition, you’ll have more control over the terms of the divorce since a judge will not be making the decisions.

There are times, though, when a divorce trial might be preferable to an agreement, mediation, collaboration, or negotiation. For example, if you believe that your spouse is hiding assets or income, a subpoena might be necessary. Litigation is your only opportunity to compel financial disclosure. In addition, if your spouse has a history of domestic violence or drug or alcohol abuse, a trial is often necessary.

Reach Out To Our Trusted Carlsbad Mediation Attorneys

Are you considering a divorce and are interested in alternatives to a trial? Call Griffith Young at 858-345-1720 to learn about your options! Our attorneys are some of the best in the field and we would be happy to help you through the divorce mediation process.

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